He's just not that into you.

so recently, i watched the movie "He's just not that into you". funniest movie ever. i really liked it :] i totally agree with what the message is saying about guys. it might be a lito too extreme for teenagers, but it is basically correct.


things i've learned:

"when a guy doesn't call you, he doesn't want to call you"

"when a guy takes your card number and says 'i'll call you' , he is not into you"

"when a guy doesn't call you for a week, move ON"

"when he wants to you, he'll do everything he can to have you.. (he can even turn gay for you)"

"don't fall for asshole guys who cheat"

"when a guy makes an excuse to not have sex with you, he's just not into you"


damn i say, i feel exhausted already lol. learning all these rules and exceptions was hella fun, but not very important to me. as i watch these character rant about their fucked up lives, i think.. that's how life is supposed to be. it's goin to be full of dissapointments and arguments, you just have to live it out and not give up. cuz really, everyone will find their soulmate..(even me) lol.

reading and watching this movie was very helpful for me, it gave me a better insight on life, and i really appreciate what it's taught me. too bad, the movie and book doesn't really pertain to us teenagers... boys and girls as teenagers and in their younger 20s don't think as "rational" as the guys in the movie says. guys our age want girls to go after them.. it's actually a turn on. so GIRLS, advice from me: don't sit back too much, you have to do some of the work as well...bcuz sometimes guys are just like us, waiting for a call..wondering if the girl is interested too. if the guy doesn't find out, he sometimes gives up since doin all the work can be a pain even for them. hey, i agree.. i've done the work sometimes, and it always works. xD

i've also been listening to mellow music lately.. less beats.. less stress.. just a calm nurturing tune. and i'm beginning to like it even more.

what a life. i'm happy cuz i don't care. and you know what? i live better that way neway. =]